UPDATE 2 Alright, so yesterday I was feeling pretty down about a lot of these responses. I was a little taken back by how accusatory some people were. Even though there were so many honest replies and so much good conversation the bad ones were still bad.
However, I decided that walking away just wasn’t the right thing to do. I’m going to ignore the intolerant posts but try to reply to the others. Also, I created a new thread with the goal of removing this attitude that women can’t have preferences. I want to hear preferences. Honest ones. No more letting the insecure, intolerant people win.